upheimand its Annihilation
Book Page 429
Translated by: Katja Sonnen
Supervisor: Dr. Robynne, Flynn-Diez,
Institut für Übersetzen und Dolmetschen Englischabteilung
Karl Gustav Eppstein, born June 14, 1873, in Muehringen, died May 16, 1926 in Rottweil] OO Therese (Resl, later called Razel or Resa), maiden name Obernauer, born September 28, 1887, in Laupheim, died 1985 in New York.
- Ilse, born November 3, 1913, in Rottweil,
- Gertrud (Trudl, later called Trudy) Henriette, born November 11, 1920, in Rottweil, lives in New York
Therese Eppstein, the only sister to four brothers, Hugo, Max, Willhelm and Hermann Obernauer, married Karl Gustav Eppstein and moved to Rottweil. The couple had two daughters, Ilse and Gertrud (who was called Trudl). Karl Gustav died when he was just 39 years old and his young widow moved back to her childhood home in Laupheim with her two daughters. There she lived on the ground floor, while her brother Hermann Obernauer lived on the first floor with his family. Together with her sister-in-law Olga, Resl took care of the extremely big garden, where they grew all the produce they needed to be self-sufficient.
Already in the 1920s, Ilse Eppstein went to France to live with a family, so she could learn French; she apparently also went to stay in a household in England and, as a result, spoke English as well. Early on she had made an effort to immigrate to the US, and in 1937, she received an Affidavit from Carl Laemmle and was able to leave Germany in the same year.
Penniless, Ilse first moved to Washington Heights in northern New York, where there were already many Jewish immigrants and which had therefore been nicknamed "Frankfurt on Hudson". She succeeded in finding work as a maid at the family of the secretary of New York's governor. This family did, most kindly, lend her the money needed to facilitate her sister Trudl´s immigration to America.
At first, Trudl (now called Trudy) also worked as a maid for this family's household. Both sisters saved every penny they earned so their mother, too, could leave Nazi-Germany.
With heavy hearts, it was then time to say goodbye. Two pictures of Trudl from these days of departure in 1938 can be found on the next page.
Resl, however, still had to witness the so-called Reichskristallnacht in Laupheim. In the middle of the night of November 9, someone knocked on their door on 56 Kapellenstrasse. Resl wakes up and was shocked. Her brother Hermann is told to get dressed and come with them. After Resl has composed herself, she does muster up the courage to take one of the SA-men (SA = abbreviation of Sturmabteilung, German for "Assault Division") by the arm and ask him: "What are you doing?"
Eighteen-year-old Trudl Eppstein just before her immigration to the US in 1938.
A rare snapshot on the right: Trudl Eppstein saying goodbye to two acquaintances
from Steinerstrasse, Lina Dilger (on the right) and Pauline Frank.
(Pictures: Picture archive museum Laupheim)
When Resl arrives in the New World, she is over 50 years old. She and her daughters move in together with a distant relative, mostly to keep everyday costs at a minimum. Resl (now called Razel or Resa) finds a job as an assembly-line worker in a lighter factory, where both her daughters will also work later on. Resl herself has trouble with the new language, but scolds Trudy for speaking English too often and for even using it in conversations with German relatives and friends. Trudy does that on purpose, so that many people assume she has already forgotten the German language, which, of course, was not true. Even in her old days, she regrets to "have never really learned English properly" and that by now, she does "not speak German well anymore, either". In contrast to her sister, Trudy learns the language along the way, for example by reading the newspaper and from whatever she overhears.
As America enters the war, all three of the women make their living in companies important to the war; Trudl, for example, works for IBM at a card punch machine.
Ilse marries in the early 40s. Her husband Irving produces handkerchiefs. Later on they move to Queens, where they open a handkerchief-shop. The couple has two children, Peter and Elaine.
Trudl marries, too. Her husband Kurt Fraenkel is from Germany, just like she is. The couple remains childless. Kurt sells fabrics, and later also greeting cards.
Trudy Fraenkl, maiden name Eppstein, with her late husband Kurt, who was from Biblis. New York, 1995.
(Picture: Archive Dr. Bayer)
For three years they move to Omaha, an area Trudl hated. She works in a retirement home and - as a member of a Jewish charity - volunteers in a correction facility. From Omaha they return to New York City.
Trudl and her husband have no financial problems. They travel to Europe, but never visit Germany. Kurt's family had fallen victim to the Shoah. Trudl, however, is always interested in Laupheim and happy about news from home, for example as the family of Udo Bayer visits the Fraenkls. She tells them that she has had her father’s headstone in Rottweil restored.
Today, Trudl still lives in New York City, she is 88 years old, ill and has little good feelings when asked about the happenings before her emigration. She still thinks that the citizens of Laupheim were cowards who merely watched as their neighbors were abused and their lives threatened. She does not want there to be a lot of fuss about her person and would have preferred not to be memorialized in this book.